Dealing with excited people
Do you wonder how you should be dealing with excited people? Those are people who seem to just want to have fun, they never stop twitching… they don’t seem to care about rules or schedules… Sapphires are exciting to be around and are the total opposite of Emeralds… Dani Johnson’s GEMS is about the 4 personality types and how to improve your relationships and business by understand them and how they differ from you.
If you’re one of those, then you totally understand, but since there are 4 distinct personality types, chances are you’re one of the 3 others and you just don’t get these kinds of people.
Not to worry, you can learn how to deal with them and relate to them. Dealing with excited people is all about learning what their likes and dislikes are.
What are Sapphires like?
You can certainly figure out that they are Sapphires over time… but what if you want to know before you even talk to them?
They have a different perspective on life… they have friends from kindergarten! They might like to go to parties more… they prefer colorful and crazy patterns in their clothing… you can sometimes recognize a Sapphire just by their clothing and by how they move or talk.
Actually, you can often recognize all personalities by their handshakes… imagine!
Sapphire hand shake
A Sapphire will usually have a lot of energy in their handshake, not controlled, firm but not too firm. They shake your hands with some wishy washy movement, as if they are really happy to meet you even though they don’t know you yet.
See the other posts on how that differs for Emeralds, Rubies or Perls.
How to recognize a Sapphire
- Love colorful or different clothing
- Like to stand out in a crowd
- Wnjoy being center of attention
- Are often late
- Don’t usually follow the rules
- Love to dance
- Enjoy loud music
- Prefer being in a crowd
- Hate authority such as rules and the law
- Keep connections from as young as kindergarten
- Are not usually able to sit still for very long
Of course, this does not always match as everyone has a little bit of every personality, but this is often the description of a Sapphire.
So, if you are often dealing with excited people, just remember that they are like that because of their personality. There is nothing wrong with that, they are just being themselves and the best way for you to deal with them is to understand them and speak their languages.
If you’d like to learn more about this exciting topic, you can learn to talk with strangers and get your own copy of the Dani Jonhson’s GEM program.
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